Roger Lovette writes about cultural concerns, healthy faith and matters of the heart.
Wednesday, October 2, 2013
Government Shut-Down--More Than You Think
Listen to this sad story: "Well, our two year planned trip and one of our "bucket list" items was eliminated today. I have wanted to see the American cemetery in Normandy for many years so we drove up to the entry gates and the sign said: "Due to the U.S. Government shut down this site is closed to the public."
Those jockeying for power, standing before microphones pontificating do not realize they are hurting everyone. Sure--let's make our statements, close down our sites--ignore the thousands of children that will go hungry, the 800,000 government employees that go home jobless, the 30,000 children with cancer that will not be treated by the NIH because of this shut-down. This is only the tip of a very sad ice-berg.
Read wise man, Thomas Friedman's pulse-taking article in today's New York Times about this government shut-down. This is scary and serious business.
by Roger Lovette: lrl1035@bellsouth.net
Monday, September 30, 2013
Universal Health Care--We Had A Dream
"Were our government for the people, we would have the best education in the world, universal health insurance, a decent sway of financing elections, and a massive commitment to sources of clean energy."
--William Sloane Coffin, in Credo
--William Sloane Coffin, in Credo
We are on the edge of a day like our country has not seen. 50 million citizens uninsured will have a chance at
affordable health care. The fight has been long and hard.
- Nine Presidents faced horrendous opposition to this effort and failed.*
- President Obama signed the Affordable Care Act into law March 23, 2010
- The fight goes on even after this Bill has become law.
- The Huffington Lost has pointed out that before this landmark health care reform law was passed since 2009 1,246 different organizations have registered to lobby Congress or the executive branch on the Affordable Care Act.
- Lobbying groups $1.06 billion between 2009 and 2010 to defeat this bill.
- Groups spent 126 million as the Supreme Court considered this bill.
- Since the Health Care Bill was assigned into law groups have spent over $262 million on television advertisements.
- Immediately after the bill’s passage the Koch-funded Americans for Prosperity announced they would spend $9 million on an ad blitz campaign to oppose this ruling.
- The House of Representatives have 42 times to rescind this law. Each effort failed.
- About 36 states have refused to cooperate with this Bill.
- South Carolina has at least 320,000 citizens uninsured citizens.
- The state legislature has refused to cooperate with this Bill.
When President Franklin Roosevelt the Social Security Bill
this was the response of some of
the opposition:
- “Ultimate socialistic control of life and industry” –National Association of Manufacturers
- “Industry has every reason to be alarmed at the social, economic, and financial implications...The dangers are manifest.” – A.P. Sloan, Chair General Motors
- “Never in the history of the world has any measure brought in here so insidiously designed as to prevent business recovery, to enslave workers, and to present any possibility of the employers providing work for the people.” – John Taber, Republican representative NY
- “The last of the dictator will be felt.” – Daniel Reed, Republican representative from NY i
Change is disrupting. Remember giving women the right to
vote. Remember setting limits on child labor. Remember Civil Rights. Remember
Voting Rights. Every effort to support all the people has always met with
enormous opposition. Remember.
[i] H.W. Brands,
Traitor To His Class, p. 311
*Those nine Presidents were: Theodore Roosevelt, Franklin Roosevelt, Harry Truman, Dwight Eisenhower, John F. Kennedy, Lyndon Johnson, Richard Nixon, Jimmy Carter and Bill Clinton.
*Those nine Presidents were: Theodore Roosevelt, Franklin Roosevelt, Harry Truman, Dwight Eisenhower, John F. Kennedy, Lyndon Johnson, Richard Nixon, Jimmy Carter and Bill Clinton.
--by Roger Lovette, lrl1035@bellsouth.net
Sunday, September 29, 2013
Laugh Until it Hurts
I don't know a better medicine for any of us than a good laugh. I remember that Norman Cousins who was Editor of the then sophisticated, Saturday Review. He contacted a very serious illness and the doctors told him he did not have long to live. So he decided that he was going to prove the doctors wrong. After a brief stint in the hospital he checked himself into a hotel room. He said it was cheaper than the hospital (and this was years ago) and you could get some sleep at night. He heard somewhere that laughter was good for the soul and so he decided to make laughter part of his daily regimen. He got his wife to locate a whole cadre of the old Candid Camera re-runs that were on television. He would watch these for a while every day and just laugh and laugh. Cousins did not beat the serious disease he had--but he lived several years after the doctors said he would die. He told his story in a great book, Anatomy of an Illness.
I've been co-teaching a class on aging with my Pastor the last few weeks. And he introduced me to Mary Maxwell. Mary is this absolutely hilarious older lady. We showed clips from her YouTube segments to our class. I recommend them to anybody who needs a laugh which is, I guess just about all of us. Pull up YouTube and type in Mary Maxwell and--tah-day--there you are. And--happy laughing.
by Roger Lovette: lrl1035@bellsouth.net
I've been co-teaching a class on aging with my Pastor the last few weeks. And he introduced me to Mary Maxwell. Mary is this absolutely hilarious older lady. We showed clips from her YouTube segments to our class. I recommend them to anybody who needs a laugh which is, I guess just about all of us. Pull up YouTube and type in Mary Maxwell and--tah-day--there you are. And--happy laughing.
by Roger Lovette: lrl1035@bellsouth.net
Friday, September 27, 2013
Football Mania Comes to Town
Remember the old story of the two farmers that went down to the Court House to hear a politician plead for votes. One of the men turned to the other and said, "Well, what do you think?" And his sidekick said:" I didn't come here to think--I come here to holler." Well--on Football week-ends especially there is a whole lot of hollering.
Our stadium holds over 100,00 people--that's a lot of people for a little town. Then you can compute all those hanger-on's who come just to party (and holler) , tailgate and have fun. It was estimated that when Clemson players the University of Georgia there were upward to 150-200,000 people here. But the pageantry and the energy on ball-game days is absolutely infectious. Some say there is nothing like these rabid fans anywhere in the country.
My good friend and blogging buddy. Marion Aldridge has a great blog called, "Where the Pavement Ends." He is a Clemson graduate and to say he is a fan is an understatement. Today he wrote about football week-ends and the excitement that goes on. His blog is accompanied with a wonderful You Tube video of just what happens at the beginning of every home ball game. Check it out. It really worth seeing.
(Pardon my brag but I couldn't resist this great photo of one of two beautiful granddaughters.)
By Roger Lovette, lrl1035@bellsouth.net
Thursday, September 26, 2013
Is the Pope a Catholic?
If you walked two blocks from where I lived in a four-room
house you would come to the bus stop. We had no car. So I guess I rode the bus
down Second Avenue three miles to town a zillion times. Halfway there you could
see a neon sign: Baptist Tabernacle. Parson Jack was the preacher and was known
all over town. He was Chaplain of the KKK and hated Jews, Catholics and of
course he said niggers.
My little Baptist Church was not all that with-it—but we
always thought even in the fifties that Parson Jack was a mite too rabid. I
never stopped there but I do know the Parson reflected at least part of our
Georgia culture too well.
But in my Church
even we were suspicious of all those Catholics. I never met one until I went to
High School, but it was whispered that they were not real Americans and that
they kept guns in the basement of every church. One day, when no one was
looking they would haul out the guns and take over the country. Crazy, yes but
it was out there for public consumption. Even though that sounded a bit strange
I was told they worshipped idols and Mary of all people and they did whatever
the Pope told them to do. We were instructed in Sunday school never to date and
certainly not to marry a Catholic. Why? Mixed-marriage. You had to sign a paper that you would raise
your children Catholic and even if the Catholic parent died—the kids still had
to be Catholic. We were taught that they really might not be saved, even though
the Methodists with their sprinkling and the Presbyterians with their stiffness--were
much closer than the Catholics.
My first experience with a real live Catholic was in High
School. Shirley was Editor of the school paper. She was wonderful. Kind, funny
and smart as could be. She taught me that maybe, just maybe some Catholics
might just make it through the Pearly Gates. Even after all these years I still
remember Shirley and the gifts she gave me.
In my first church in Western Kentucky the lines were
clearly drawn between the Baptists and the Catholics. They co-existed. And all
the prejudices about them. The very worst thing any of our young people could
do was marry “one of them.”
Up the road about ten miles or so was the tiny community of
Knottsville. In the center of the town was a Catholic Church. Many of the folk
that lived there were Catholic. I called up the Priest one day and slowly we
became friends. He taught me a lot about Catholics. One of the real lessons was
they are just like us. Same hopes and dreams—and not a gun in the church. When we built our new building I asked the
Priest to come and give the Invocation. I was unheard of—but I hope it opened
some eyes. Later this cigar-smoking Priest invited me to their Church’s
Dedication and I had part in the ceremonies. I still remember the Bishop
looking just a little uncomfortable. Like Shirley years before—he taught me
some of the good things about the Catholic Church.
There are some doors that open that will never close again.
I discovered Thomas Merton and read The
Seven Storey Mountain. I heard of the Berrigan brothers and their courageous efforts to stop the cursed wars and bring peace. I read a little, not a lot of Hans Kung and Teihard de Chardin. I discovered funny, brilliant Flannery O’Connor was a Catholic. But that little wisp of a woman in India who spent her life picking up dying babies and loving the unloving--clenched the deal for me.
Seven Storey Mountain. I heard of the Berrigan brothers and their courageous efforts to stop the cursed wars and bring peace. I read a little, not a lot of Hans Kung and Teihard de Chardin. I discovered funny, brilliant Flannery O’Connor was a Catholic. But that little wisp of a woman in India who spent her life picking up dying babies and loving the unloving--clenched the deal for me.
So this is my roundabout way of saying that we owe the
Catholics great debt of gratitude in many ways. I know something of the
Inquisition and their tortured history. I have visited Avignon and wondered how
in the world the Popes could live there with all their opulence while outside
the heavy doors multitudes were starving. I also know something of our own
tortured history. We Baptists like all the other Protestants have had—and some
still do—some very dark days.
So I was curious when Pope Francis was elected. I never
liked Pope Benedict—maybe it was those red Prada shoes. Cardinal Dolan,
Archbishop of News York came home after the papal conclave. He was quoted as
saying not to expect many changes from this new Pope.
Jaws must have dropped Pope Francis’ first Holy Week when he
went to a prison of all things and washed the feet of twelve prisoners. Popes
usually wash feet—usually another official in the church. This seemed be a
Prelude of his tenure as Pope. He caused a ripple across the church for
refusing to ride in the Pope Mobile. Like his namesake the other Francis—he
lives simply.
He too has opened the door for many American Catholics—who
for years have paid little attention to the standard Catholic mandates. Francis
has brought new hope to the poor. Lately he has cracked the door even wider
with his statements that we must love homosexuals and accept them. He talks
about the changes that the church must bring to finances, to women, to birth
control and many other important subjects.
This Pope is no flaming liberal. He has strong conservative
feelings about many of the church’s practice. He has probably known for years
that you don’t turn the Queen Mary around suddenly. It would break into pieces.
Neither can institutions change fast.
And yet—I know this: there is a good, good man leading the
Catholic Church. I doubt Parson Jack would believe a word he says—I smile when
I think of the changes he has brought and will still bring. Yes, the Pope is a
Catholic—a very good one. Would you
join me in singing the Doxology?
(You might enjoy reading Jim Wallis' article on "Pope Francis We Need You in Washington.")
--by Roger Lovette, lrl1035@bellsouth.net
(You might enjoy reading Jim Wallis' article on "Pope Francis We Need You in Washington.")
--by Roger Lovette, lrl1035@bellsouth.net
Tuesday, September 24, 2013
Good Grief-ers
"Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand that this, too, was a gift."
--Mary Oliver, The Uses of Sorrow
It took me years to understand that this, too, was a gift."
--Mary Oliver, The Uses of Sorrow
I just finished a Grief Group last night. We call it The
Healing Place. We met for eight weeks in a circle. Slowly, ever so slowly we
tentatively began to share our feelings. We showed pictures of the people we
had lost. One week we brought something that symbolized the person—that when we
looked at it—memories came flooding back. Someone brought a cross-stitched
piece—showing that even the back was done perfectly. Another brought a picture
high up in the mountains of that windy day when life was rich and fine and
laughter came easy. Someone pulled out a two pictures—one of a young couple on
their wedding day—years and years before. And then they showed us another
picture—taken the last year before the end came. Changes, yes. Many changes.
But an up-and-down-lifetime of love. Someone brought a banner they hung up at
the Tailgating parties before the Football games. It showed pictures and names
of some family members they had lost. Others shared simple things: a worn
tee-shirt...a hammer depicting his love of his shop...a dog-eared baseball
cap...the pictures they found in his billfold after he died.
We told stories—wonderful human stories. About trips. About
the things they did together. We heard someone confess that they never thought
they could go on without this person they loved. We heard stories of
motorcycles, of someone who had worked hard all their lives. Someone told of
how he liked to cook and she never had to go into the kitchen. One person told
of coming home from the hospital without her new baby and looking at the
freshly painted room and all the presents from all the showers never to be
used.
The eighth week we talked about where we were and what we
had learned. I learned, she said that I am not alone in my grief. Everyone in
this group feels the way I do. Someone offered, I think I learned that every
grief is different and that none of us grieve the same way—and that’s all
right. Some told of learning things about their loved one they had discovered
only recently. People who would sidle up and tell stories of something the
person did and the way they told those jokes.
The last group meeting ended. People got up and gathered
their belongings to leave. Someone wrapped up the cake we did not eat and put
away the Styrofoam cups and the empty water bottle away. We picked up the
knotted-up pieces of tissue that had held the tears. No one wanted to leave. We
hugged one another tight and long. We looked into each other’s faces and
smiled. We whispered something to one another--private and loving. We wrote
down telephone numbers and email addresses. Finally the last person was gone
and I began to turn off the lights. I looked around the room at where each one
had sat. For just a few moments, week after week, that space had become holy as
people had taken off their shoes and opened up their hearts and talked about
the hard things.
Years ago Judith Guest wrote a book, Ordinary People. It was a book about loss. She wrote: “How does (anyone) deal
with grief? There is no dealing; he (or she) knows that much. There is the stubborn,
mindless hanging on until it is over. Until you are through it. But something
has happened in the process. The old definitions, the neat, knowing pigeonholes
have disappeared. Or else they no longer apply.” My group knew that well.
I think today of those who scattered last night. Back to
empty houses. Back to jobs. Back to families—where little children still need
what they gave to give. Back to a life where the terrain is strange and the
road ahead is far from certain.
Whether we’ve been in a circle or not—we’ve all lost.
Places, jobs, dogs and cats—money or success or health or status. We’ve all
known failure. Kids that have broken
our hearts. Disappointments when we peer into the mirror. Sometimes muttering:
“If only...”
I hang on to one of my favorite hopeful verses of Scripture
for them: "For his anger is but for a moment; his favor is for a lifetime.
Weeping may linger for the night, but joy comes with the morning.” Wherever
they are and whatever they are doing today—I hope they find that promised joy
that right now may seem so far away.
--by Roger Lovette, lrl1035@bellsouth.net
Monday, September 23, 2013
The Poor--Facts and Opinions
The quote has been attributed to Patrick Moynihan. “You are
entitled to your own opinion, but not your own facts.” We’re living in a strange time—maybe it’s
always been this way. But so many folk believe that opinions and facts are one
and the same. Remember when TV first came out. People thought: If it was on TV it
must be the truth. I guess we got jaundiced to all those words, words, words. Now—so
many think if it is on the Internet it must be true. And every day there spews
out craziness and madness that people take for truth. Hitler corralled a whole
nation by telling a lie over and over again. Millions and millions of dollars
are spent trying to make folk think the opinions they foist on us are truths.
Jesus said, “You shall know the truth and the truth shall
set you free.” We’ve got an awful lot of folk—inside and outside the church—who
drag around very heavy chains of mis-truths. Just because we think it does not
make it true.
The photograph above I took in Barcelona. In the wonderful
cathedral that Gaudi designed , as you walk through the door you can see this plaque.
Among a multitude of words, words, words there in the center if you look
closely you can see it. The word: Jesus. It stands out above all the others
because pilgrims, I guess, touched the word as they moved into the cathedral.
Embedded in the tsunami of words that wash over us everyday
there are kernels of truth. The wise ones among us swill look hard until we see
it. Paul Krugman wrote in Monday morning’s New York Times of some of the sad mis-truth—or
downright lies—told about the poor in this country. Republicans are hell-bent
on whittling down the food stamp program. We’ve heard all their whines about
people in Cadillacs driving up to the Grocery store and pulling out their food
stamps. We’ve also been told of all the sorry people who could work who just enjoy
living off the pittance the government provides. Paul Ryan, Chair of the
House Budget Committee says the food stamp program is a safety net for those
who do not need it. He says this safety net is a “hammock that lulls
able-bodied people to live lives of dependency and complacency.”
Krugman challenges his opinions with solid facts.
- The average food stamp benefits for a day are $4.45.
- 2/3rds of the food stamp recipients are children, the elderly and the disabled.
- The Nutrition program in schools for the poor help make them better students.
Churches of all places ought to be standing up for the truth
that if there are people in real need—this is one of the tasks of the
government. I know, I know so many say that we ought to leave all this helping
to the churches. Having served the church many places and many times—I know the
generosity that takes place in church after church. But—we cannot take on the
poor—there are too many. Yet—on Sundays people ought to squirm just a little
bit as they are told how the Lord Jesus reached out to those in need. "Isasmuch as we do it unto the least of these" has not changed. Neither has: "Inasmuch as you did it not unto the least of these..." Among the multitude of words we still need to touch that word, Jesus embedded in the heart of life. This understanding could alter the way we see many things. The facts remain. We live in a very hard time. Jobs are few in
number. Many are desperate. 25 million have no health care.What they need is a helping hand and not a guilt
trip because of the hard place they are in. Bill Coffin was right when he said:
“Hell is truth seen too late.”
--by Roger Lovette, lrl1035@bellsouth.net
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