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It’s Academy Awards Time. And up and down the red carpet the
stars and semi-stars will preen and strut and just know they will win. There is
probably as much egomania there as you would find at a Preacher’s convention.
I make no predictions—though I do have some favorites. But
I’ve been wishing I could pass out my own golden statues to the stars in my own
life. People that made it possible. Those that, as Fosdick said, “put the stars
back in my sky.” We all have these people were at times our lifeline or just
put their arms around me and said, “You can do it.”
I’d have to begin taking a golden man and handing it out to
my parents. They did what they could. Hard times. Little money. Despite all
sorts of difficulties—they stayed together and kept our little family going.
Their names were never in the paper except maybe their obituaries. But without
them I don’t know what I would have done.
I remember my first grade teacher. That little barefoot boy
thought she was the purtiest woman I ever saw. She took an interest in me. Made
me feel like I mattered. Pass me another Oscar please.
I remember a friend during those painful growing-up years.
Two, in fact. We laughed; we talked about everything, Jesus, the future, movie
stars and just about everything else. They helped me over that awkward hump. I
am grateful.
I remember a Junior-High School teacher. She sidled up to me
and said, “Are you going to college?” And the light came on. If she thought I
could go—maybe, just maybe I could.
I remember my friend that never made it to college—yet she
saved up her nickels and dimes from her menial job and sent me money during
those college years.
I probably don’t have enough Oscars to go around for the
college years. The friends, the teachers that opened doors I did not even know
were there. Those years helped shape me forever. Or I should say the members of
my academy.
Seminary brought more heroes and champions. Friends, a
Professor who whispered one day, “Did you ever think about writing.” The
teachers who opened the black book and showed me a more excellent way.
Churches—Lord knows I did not realize at the time how many
stars were there on those pews that would become part of my constellation. Old
fat Deacons...neighbors that showed us how to change diapers and such. Or those
along the way that challenged me and kicked my rear when it was needed. Those
that genuinely cared about me and mine. Search Committee
chairs...preacher-friends who made things fun. Faithful folk that came by with
ham biscuits or casseroles or sometimes even a Christmas tree. Or just to
really ask, “How you doin’?”
Of course my wife and my kids—for putting up with a
Pastor-husband-father who often was too preoccupied to be much help. They loved
me anyway—still do for some strange reasons...they deserve a golden statue.
Probably more than one.
That handful that never, ever forget an anniversary or a
birthday or Christmas. After all these years they remember and make me glad.
Pass me another Oscar please.
The Two Amigos that just added the spice and richness and
love and care despite who I was or what was happening in my preoccupied life.
Whew—I could go on and on. When they cut me open there will
be many of their names written on my heart—it would be hard to find that organ.
--Roger Lovette / rogerlovette.blogspot.com
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