All Saints Day--A Time to Remember
"For all the saints
who from their labors rest,
Who Thee by faith
before the world confessed,
Thy name, O Jesus, be forever
Who Thee by faith
before the world confessed,
Thy name, O Jesus, be forever
blest,
Alleluia! Alleluia!"
--William W. How, 1823-1897
Mary Jo Bang wrote after the death of her son: "You were the brightest thing in the shop
Alleluia! Alleluia!"
--William W. How, 1823-1897
Mary Jo Bang wrote after the death of her son: "You were the brightest thing in the shop
window. And the most beautiful thing I ever saw." I don’t know a better way to get at
All Saints Day than these sad and powerful words. I have told my Grief groups that one
of the things that saves us is gratitude. Remembering... Remembering...Remembering.
I know that it doesn’t last long enough. I know we wished with all our hearts there was
more than there has been. You have told me that there are days so hard that you just
don’t think you can make it. But on this All Saints Day the Church has called out the
names of those that have died this year “believing that there is a prayerful spiritual bond
between those in heaven and the living.” But it just isn’t those that slipped into the
mystery this year. This is a day for fondling the rosary of every name and every face that
shaped you and made you smile.
You might spend the day just thinking of him or her or them. You might stare at some
picture or open some album and remember. There is a good grief and a poor grief. When
we say a Doxology over those who have changed our lives—we grieve, “but not as those
who have no hope.”
At most of the funerals I have conducted the last few years I have leaned on that
wonderful Benediction which comes from the Roman Catholic Prayer for the Dead.
"Into paradise may the angels lead them; at their coming may the martyrs take
them up into eternal rest, and may the chorus of angels lead them to that holy city,
and the place of perpetual light." Amen.
(The painting at the beginning of this piece is from Fra Angelico, 15th Century artist.)
(I first printed this piece in a blog post for 2013. I love the spirit of this day--and wanted to share these
words with you.)
--Roger Lovette / rogerlovette.blogspot.com
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