Wednesday, November 24, 2021

Thanksgiving 2021

--photo collage by marcusrg / flikr

"Were there not ten cleansed? but where are the nine? There are not found that give glory to God, save this stranger."  --Luke 17. 17,18

This Thanksgiving comes at just the right time. Maybe it is true about every Thanksgiving. I turned off the TV after watching 10 minutes this morning. Dear God it was just too much. A Christmas parade destroyed with someone plowing a vehicle in to the happy marching band killing five--children. Children? All who have lost so many--over 600,000 in our country alone to this cursed Pandemic. January 6th. January 6th. January 6th. Gun ands more gun blotting out the lives of so very many.  Ugly threats to Doctors, nurses, aides who worked long, long hours trying to help the victims of our plague. Rage over vaccinations. Washington awash with hatred and division and finger-pointing. Getting even. Outbreaks there and wondering if this, too will spread. And Thanksgiving comes. 

We are not the first nor the last to live in the middle of a hurricane. We think of just today--us, ours, here. But the Bible alone mentions giving thanks 140 times. The backdrop. War and pestilence. Hungers and starvation. Tears and more tears. In every age there have been terrible convolutions. And set in the middle of these strange words for a dark time: Thanks. Praise. Gratitude. Amazing Grace. 

It is easy to give thanks when everything seems to be going well. Or easy to forget God.  But maybe Jesus was right, where in the midst of a world gone wrong, he asks the strangest question:"Where are the nine?" Anne Lamott reminds us: "If you've been around for a while, you know the much of the time, if you are patient and paying attention, you will see that God will restore what the locusts have taken away."* Lord, I want to be in that number when the saints go marching in. Tail end of the line of course.

So we are to pay attention. To the wonders of this world and the wonders of the people we know.  And those we do not know. Like the man I see often walking, just walking. All over town.

No car. Face looks like he's hard time. Sometimes carrying a little filled grocery sack he got up the street. Limping but walking. Or the man I saw at Wendy's the other day. Just sitting there as people walked in to give their orders. He just watched. You could tell he had no money. No hand held out. No placard saying: I am hungry. Just there. Me? I ordered a bowl of chilli. I think Thanksgiving says if we praise long enough we will begin to respond to all those out there. The least of these. And many of the well-heeled too. Sometimes I think I missed that chapter.

Or as dear Mother Teresa said one time, "Young man I do what I can, where I am, with what I have." That's praise. I do believe that's Doxology. We really are to pay attention. Down in the mouth, troubled by many things--I wandered out on my porch and looked up. And there it was--a beautiful maple tree in my yard. Don Robertson wrote a book one time, Praise the Human Season. And maybe just maybe this Thanksgiving if we just pay attention to those around our table, and the food we are about to eat, looking out the window at it all--we too might praise this very human season and it may just save our souls after all.


*You might want to read Anne Lamott's book, Help Thanks Now - Riverhead Books

--Roger Lovette / rogerlovette.blogspot.com







           

Monday, November 22, 2021

Happy Birthday Granddaughter


 Hey Granddaughter...

...We love you

...We are proud of your job and trying to be  grown-up person...

...We got to the hospital in Louisville a little late for your birth...

...But we were there just after your birth...

...And there never was a happier circle around your Mama's bed and you blinking out wondering who all these strange smiling people were...

...Well after all these years we are still smiling...well, most of the time...

...We hope that your day is great...birthdays only come around just once a year...but today is your day...

...Wherever you go never, ever forget that there are weird people out there that still smile when they say your name...



...Natalie and Mama and baby sister Libby. 

--Roger Lovette / rogerlovette.blogspot.com




Sunday, November 7, 2021

It's All Saints Day--Who's in your Window?


                                                 Endurance Window - Princeton University Chapel

"For all the saints who from their labors rest, Who Thee by faith before the world confessed, Thy name, O Jesus, be forever blest. Alleluia! Alleluia!"


On this All Saints Day I remember a stained glass window. I saw it in the Princeton University Chapel. That magnificent gothic structure is surrounded by wonderful stained glass that tell the Biblical story.


I spent many summers at Princeton Theological Seminary. With time off  I would wander into the University Chapel. But one particular day I came in and sat close to the Altar. No one was no one there but me. I looked to my left and saw what was called the Great North Window. Jesus dominated much of the center part of that window. But underneath that rendering of Jesus was another large figure: St. Michael with a sword in his hand. Ever ready to slay the dragons.


Around those two figures there were many who has stood strong despite impossible circumstances. They were called saints. The lower part of the window showed other historical names and faces with the word inscribed: Perseverance. Underneath it all were the words: “He that endureth to the end shall be saved.” Almost every summer after that I would go into that chapel and sit in that same pew and ponder the glittering colored glass that surrounded Jesus. 


But I found myself not only seeing the figures of the saints. But I began to think of those along the way that helped keep me going. Many would laugh themselves silly if anybody called them a saint. But they were and they are. For living or dead they are still in my window. They always brought some word, some hug, some letter or some call from across the miles. None of them were particularly pious but they always brought with them a breath of fresh air.


As I look at those in my endurance window they all made me feel good just to be around them. Sometimes they stretched me in ways that surprised. They were all bonafide human beings with clay feet and hangups of their own. Many of them had carried heavy loads. But this did not stop them from making their worlds good and bad a better place because they were there.


Someone asked a little boy at Sunday school what he thought a saint was. He said, A saint is someone who lets the light shine through. And I think he was right. 


Look up at your own window. Who do you find? They were some who really did let the light shine on you. Maybe there was a time when you thought you couldn’t make it but they came again and again. Just enough light! Just enough light!


I will remember this day and some who were saints to me. Helping, loving, caring and never giving up on me and a whole lot of others. Isn’t that what a saint is supposed to be. And guess what? There was not a halo in the whole bunch.


 
photo courtesy of Jean Christophe Bleuquart /flikr


"And when the strife is fierce, the warfare long, Steals on the ear the distant triumph song, 
And  hearts are brave again, and arms are strong. Alleluia! Alleluia!"

--Roger Lovette / rogerlovette.blogspot.com

Wednesday, October 27, 2021

Victory in a Time of a Plague



photo by Elis Alves / flikr



You stumble out of bed—go outside and get the paper. Back in the house you move toward the coffee pot and fix your coffee. You open the paper and it all pours out: Washington. Stimulus package. Biden. Trump.The Virus the vaccinated and those not vaccinated. Murder in a prominent family downstate. Then the Obituaries. Sports. Who won and who lost. And so you put down the newspaper and turn on the television. Maybe this will be better. Not so. Chatter. Chatter everywhere. And it’s all pretty negative. So you press the off button and fix your breakfast. But somehow all that stuff that we have just heard this morning stays with us. What’s going to happen. Are we all just going the drain. Maybe the sky really is falling. Hope not.


This is where  a lot of us are. Almost buried by headlines and Breaking News. And I remembered a story I read somewhere. Someone asked a social worker how she could stand to deal with the homeless, the poor and all those other things that broke her heart. And she said, “The only way I can make it is to rejoice in the smallest of victories.”


Victories


It got me to thinking. Hmm. The smallness of victories. What kind of pollyanna thinking is this? What about the big picture?


The disciples were having the same problem and the Pharisees with folded arms and pursed lips piously asked, “Is this Jesus not the carpenter’s son?” Not only that but a carpenter himself. 


And so early in Mark’s gospel Jesus tries to set the record straight. What a strange thing he said. “The kingdom of heaven is like a mustard seed…” Remember the temptations of Jesus there at the very beginning. 


The devil whispered, “Turn these stones into bread—and they’ll love you.” And since that didn’t work the Tempter whispered, “Throw yourself down four stories from this temple—you’ll wow them Jesus.” And that did not work and so the Devil then said, “Let me show you the kingdoms of the world—look…look. All these will be yours if you fall down and worship me. You’ll have them at your feet.”

This should have given us a clue of how his kingdom was not to be. The gospel turns most of our thinking on its head. It started with a little sixteen year old slip of a girl and her scared to death husband. God’s son born in a dirty barn because there was no room in the inn. The word became flesh—like our flesh. Like us? Lord—like us.


“They all were looking for a king 

To slay their foes and lift them high:

Thou cam’st, a little baby thing 

That made a woman cry,”

                —G.K.Chesterton


No parades. No dancing girls. No riches exactly. No popularity as the world counts. Just doing the very opposite. Calling a rag-tag band to follow him. Touching a leper—nobody did that. Picking up a little child. Telling about the black sheep of the family leaving home—frittering away his inheritance—coming back in rags only to hear his Daddy say: “My son…my son.” The religious leaders couldn’t believe him. “A friend of publicans and sinners.” Women with a shabby past. Tax collectors. The common people whose names never made it into the newspaper—or the obituary notices—these common people heard him gladly. Then he was nailed to  cross. Buried in somebody else’s tomb.


No wonder we didn’t know who he was. We are impressed with the big houses and cars. And going to the right schools. Wearing Rolex’s—winning all the ball games. Number One…Number one. I never will forget someone in Clemson telling me one day, “Well—They live in Central but they live in a nice house.”


Seeds


We forget what Jesus said, “The kingdom of God is like  a mustard seed.” This tiny seed grows into of all things a tree—and birds of all kinds came and made nests in its branches.” 


Back to our theme—“I rejoice in the smallest of victories.” Do you do this? Rejoice in the smallest of victories. I certainly miss the point many days. I just let so many of these small victories pass unnoticed as I look at the big churches and houses and big bank accounts and those other children that have done so well. C.E.O’s for this and that company. Doctors. Lawyers or bankers. Why didn’t my kids do that?


Maybe we find the mustard-seed story early in Mark’s gospel to remind us that his kingdom is not the way of the world. 


Maybe we are to pay attention. Wendell Berry has a point in which says: “Look out your window—what do you see?” Stop. Look at what’s around you. What do you see? Maybe I have been so down in the mouth many times because I didn’t even see the mustard seeds around me. The teacher says: “Children pay attention. “ And when she gets in her car dog- tired she mostly thinks about the big things. Didn’t I tell them to hang up their pajamas this morning? Did they eat their spinach? Wonder if they fed the dog?


Looking Out Your Window


So often we don’t look out the window but we see the smudges. How this window needs a cleaning. Years ago when we first came to Clemson our little boy was so impressed at this big church. It had a balcony. And a big sound system. And one Sunday as I stood up to preach there was a note on my Bible on the pulpit. It read: “Daddy—talk in the microphone and tell everybody I love you.” Whew. For years I kept that note under the glass on my desk. I hadn’t thought about this in years until I started thinking about this sermon. The smallest of victories. 


Remember old Noah and his family cooped up in that smelly boat with all those animals and weird family members. The flood came and stayed and stayed. But one day a dove came with an olive branch in her beak saying the water had gone down and they could open that door and walk once more on solid ground. An olive branch—the smallest of victories. 


It is more than a seed folks. Think about your life what really counts. Look out your window. Stop and look. Something your child said. Some note you got when you lost your loved one. Just looking out one of these frosty mornings at the leaves—the turning leaves. The smallest of victories. Maybe it’s not winning the lottery after all.


Just week before last our daughter came down from Atlanta where she teaches a very hard class. She came for my birthday. And she said, "Let's go walk on the dike by the lake before it gets dark. And so as we walked the sun was going down and she turned and said, “This is why I wanted you to come to see this sunset.” What a gift. Maybe the little things may be a whole lot bigger than all those so-called important things.


Craddock's Seed Story


Fred Craddock was one of our great story-tellers and preachers. He said he and his wife visited one of their favorite spots The Great Smoky Mountains. He said they were having dinner in a restaurant one night. Looking out the window was a great view of the mountains. Early in the meal an elderly man came by and said, “Good evening. Are you on vacation?” he said. Craddock said “Yes” and wanted to say it is none of your business.


“Where you from?” Oklahoma. “What do you do there?” Craddock said his blood pressure was going up. He wanted to say: Leave us alone. We don’t even know you. He told the man he was a minister. “What denomination?” The Christian church. The man said, “I owe a great deal to a preacher in the Christian church. “ And he pulled out a chair and sat down. Who was this person?


The man said “I grew up in these mountains. My mother was not married and everybody knew it. I was illegitimate. In those days he said, this was a great shame. And I was ashamed. “When I went into town” he said, “ I could saw people whispering. “See him—he’s a bastard. No daddy.” Children called me ugly names at school. You don’t know your Daddy.


He said in his early teens he began to attend a Christian church way back in the mountains. He said the preacher there was attractive and frightening. Tall with a deep voice. He said he kept going back to hear the man preach. He said, “I was afraid I would not be welcomed if they knew I was a bastard. I would go just in time for the sermon  and slip out fast.


But one Sunday the line was long trying to shake the preacher’s hand and he was struck. He said he made it through the line and he was stopped. There was a hand on his shoulder, a heavy hand. And it was the Preacher.  The man told Craddock he was scared to death. The preacher turned the boy’s face around and said, “Boy, you are a child of God—I can see a striking resemblance.” Then he said the preacher swatted him on his back and said, “Now go on out and claim your inheritance.”  Craddock said the man told them as a little boy he left the church a different person. In fact, he said, it was the beginning of his life.


Craddock said he was so moved by the story he asked the man sitting next to them,“What is your name?” “Ben Hooper, he said.” 


After they left he said he remembered when he was little his Mama saying how the people of Tennessee had twice elected a governor who was a bastard. His name was Ben Hooper.*


We all hold in our hands the smallest of victories. Let’s go out remembering that.


“The kingdom  of God is like a mustard seed. When sown on the ground it is the smallest of seeds yet when it grows up it becomes great tree and birds come to nest in its branches.”



    Photo by R singh



*Told in Fred Craddock’s book, Craddock Stories (Chalice Press)


This sermon was preached at the Mount Presbyterian Church, Sandy Springs, SC, October 24, 2021


—Roger Lovette/ rogerlovette.blogspot.com

 

Tuesday, October 19, 2021

Friends...Friends...Friends

 


photo courtesy from Insights Unspoken / flik


I don’t know the origin of friends. But the word must go way back. In old English friend was derived from the word, freond which meant to love or favor.


I have been overwhelmed by all the birthday greetings I got last week. My, my as I read those names I remembered back when…My memories went in all directions and leave me almost speechless—if a preacher can say this.


So I thank you for remembering once upon a time. I don’t know how to put what I want to say to you in words. So I lean on that song from Neil Young.


One of These Days

One of these days

I’m going to sit down and write a long letter

to all the good friends

I’ve known 

And I’m going try

To thank them for all the good times together

Though so apart

We’ve grown.


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One of these days 

I’m going to sit down and write a long letter

To all the good friends I’ve known

One of these days

One of these days

One of these days

And it won’t be long

It won’t be long


One of these days

One of these days

One of these days

And it won’t be long

It won’t be long.


Thanks for all the memories.






photo by Jeremy Seagrott / flikr


—Roger Lovette/ rogerlovette.blogspot.com


Saturday, October 9, 2021

Happy Birthday Leslie



She came into our lives on the evening of October 9. Dick Delleney held my hand in the waiting room. This was as far as we could go back then. We had already been to the hospital once but they sent us back home. Not ready. Well, this time she must've been ready because they wheeled her in and closed the door. 

We waited a long time before the door opened and the Doctor stood there smiling saying, "You've got a little girl." So they invited us in and there was my wife still half-groggy for what they had given her. 

And a nurse brought the baby in and showed me this tiny little baby-girl with a mass of red curls even then. And my wife sat up and said, "Let me see her ears." The nurse said: "What?" And the new Mama said:. "Her ears--let me see her ears." And so the dumbfounded nurse lifted the baby down so my wife could see. "Yep." she said, "She has her father's ears. And after all these years still has those ears except now you can't see them--they are camouflaged with a whole lot of hair.

But we remember on this her special day so many memories that have clustered around that child with the big ears.  And so we thank God and a whole lot of helpers along the way that helped shape her into this gorgeous woman she has become. She has two daughter that she loves fiercely. She has taught I don't know how many years and has touched a great many lives. Which includes I would add two parents--which she used to call: parrots. "Children obey your parrots," she would piously intone. Riding home from church one Sunday we were talking about Jesus and what he did.  She leaned over from the back seat and said, "Jesus is a boy? I thought Jesus was a girl." This was a long time before the Me-Too movement. Who knows she just may be right. For the girl-Jesus she already loved.

This is her day and we wish her the best of everything. I've thought for a long time if I had another little girl I would hope she would be just like Leslie maybe with the Parrots and the Jesus-girl thrown in for good measure.


                                                         
                                                                        --Roger Lovette  /   rogerlovette.blogspot.com